I absolutely love this piece. The goalpost is always moving, right,,,, I'm endlessly fascinated with our current fixation on appearing beautiful naturally and without intervention. Thinking abt that kid who made that disrespectful tiktok about a girl he was seeing and how he told her to her face that she wasn't "low-effort attractive." He told her bluntly that yes he thinks she's sexy but he believes he can tell that she needs to put time into being sexy, and that conversely, he doesn't. Whew!!!! It's fascinating! And I mean he's in conversation with these very concepts Rian is talking about. Really interesting I love thinking/learning/reading/watching about it. It's the #LibraMars and #VirgoVenus in me.
I absolutely love this piece. The goalpost is always moving, right,,,, I'm endlessly fascinated with our current fixation on appearing beautiful naturally and without intervention. Thinking abt that kid who made that disrespectful tiktok about a girl he was seeing and how he told her to her face that she wasn't "low-effort attractive." He told her bluntly that yes he thinks she's sexy but he believes he can tell that she needs to put time into being sexy, and that conversely, he doesn't. Whew!!!! It's fascinating! And I mean he's in conversation with these very concepts Rian is talking about. Really interesting I love thinking/learning/reading/watching about it. It's the #LibraMars and #VirgoVenus in me.